That's from Sonia Francesca's novel entitled Matters of the Heart. A novel that made me laugh because of all the silly things that the heroine did just to stop the rediculous wedding arrangement between the hero and his supoosedly fiancee, it's like "wow! someone can do all those silly things for the one they love...amazing!" Yeah, this is a fictional story but know what deep inside my thoughts, I have this notion that this also happens in real life. I've read somewhere, that in our life, nothing's impossible if your determined to do something. Real life story is boundless unlike to that of the fictional one where it is limited of what only the author have in mind.
Some says when you fall in love don't just follow your heart, listen to your brain as well... they are kin of a bit contradictory to that of the quote above. Complicated. But when did matters of the heart had been that easy to figure out? There are moments where when we fall in love, we lose the proper way of thinking things especially in making decisions. Also, there are moments where even we're inlove, we don't let the idea of being inlove manipulate us. We still continue to follow what the society define as right, we still continue to follow what our minds says...coz you know at times, heart and brain are contradictory.
Hmmm...say, let's have my experience as an example. Before, my friends were telling me to stop waiting for my ex (who is my boyfriend at that time) and have a breakup but I didn't listened to them. Also, daddy yuuki told me before not to have a boyfriend especially online coz I might just get hurt but I didn't obey. The result? I had my heart broken...coz I didn't listened to them. But then, I say that I learned my lesson.
---that if someone doesn't give you any importance even they claim they love you...better stop. It's useless. Coz if they really do love you, they won't make you feel alone or unimportant. They will make you feel special as what you really mean to them. And of course lately, I learned more... If you have a boyfriend or a girlfriend, be sure that he/she don't have you for a partner just for certain reasons(sex, money, fame...), have someone who truly loves you. Someone who is really proud to have you as his girl or as her boy. Remember, you are one in a million. We all are...
Another situation, some were so dignified (is that the right term?) that even if they love someone if he/she already have plans for his/her future, or if that someone didn't reach his standards, or with many other more reasons...they decided to follow their beliefs, their plans or whatever you may call it. And what happens? they end up regretting and hurt as well... Hmmm... Matters of Heart, a very broad topic to talk or debate about.
*from my Facebook notes ^_^
written last December 23, 2011
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